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Question

If someone is an alcoholic and a wife abuser, is it possible that overcoming the addiction can cause the abuse to stop?

Answer

Stopping drinking is necessary for spouse abuse to stop, but it is rarely enough by itself. In all probability the individual who is abusing his or her spouse also needs to learn some anger management skills, communication and problem solving skills, and probably a few others.

But stopping the drinking and/or drug using is a necessary first step. Without it, I would not be optimistic about making any sustained progress on the domestic violence front.

02/19/98

Reid K. Hester, Ph.D.
Director, Research Division
Behavior Therapy Associates
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